Evan Hale glanced at the clock on his phone: 15 minutes until his performance review. He sat at his cluttered desk, littered with diagrams and design notes, feeling the pressure of his divided attention. He had meant to prepare a list of accomplishments from the past year at Vitalisync, a Minneapolis-based firm specializing in precision components for the medical device industry, but his mind had been consumed all morning by his side hustle, Fritch Audio.

Seven years ago, he co-founded the audio component company with his best friend, Drew Larson. Fritch had been plagued by stockouts and fulfillment delays, and a shipment of scratched chassis from a supplier had compounded the problem.

His boss, Rachel Anders, appeared at his cubicle, her presence a familiar mix of authority and mentorship.

Evan followed her to her office. “This is a big day for both of us,” she began, smiling as they took their seats. “You’ve had some amazing successes recently, and your past few projects in particular have caught management’s attention.” Rachel continued, “So I’m pleased to inform you that we’d like to promote you to lead project engineer.”

Evan blinked — the news caught him completely off guard.

Rachel leaned back in her chair. “I hope you’ll accept, but before you do, I want you to have a real think about Fritch Audio. I understand how passionate you are about it, but this role will come with tighter deadlines, more travel, more oversight responsibility and occasional late-night meetings. Spontaneous time off to handle issues with your side business won’t be as easy. The choice is yours, but as your manager and your friend, I worry that you’ll be spread too thin if you try to do both.”

“I understand,” Evan said, composing himself. “I’m thrilled about this opportunity. But given the extra travel and work hours, I’d like to talk to my wife before I formally accept.”

“Of course,” Rachel replied.

A MILLION-DOLLAR OFFER

The Sound Lounge, a dimly lit enclave tucked into downtown Minneapolis, exuded an air of curated intimacy as Evan and Drew sank into one of its listening booths. The bar offered patrons a rare indulgence: the chance to slip on a pair of luxury headphones and lose themselves in music. Fritch Audio had outfitted the venue with its finest gear when it first opened; in exchange, the founders got a VIP booth and liberal pours of whiskey whenever they visited.

Both men jumped as the 230-pound frame of Phil Warner sat down in the booth across from them.

“Evan, this is Phil,” Drew said. “As I told you, he’s a real estate developer who heard about us from his daughter, who’s a Fritch customer.”

“Yep,” Phil said. “I looked at my credit card bill and saw how much she was spending on your equipment and thought, It would be cheaper for me just to buy the company!”

Evan and Drew exchanged a glance as Phil laughed heartily and then leaned forward. “Let me cut to the chase. I’ve done a lot of research on you guys and your competitors, and I’ve looked over the business plan, marketing docs and financials that Drew forwarded. I like what I see. I’d like to make a $1 million investment in Fritch Audio. All I ask is that we set out a strategy together to grow Fritch to $15 million in revenue and double the margins. Well, that and a 15% stake in the company!”

TURNING UP THE VOLUME

“Oh, honey, that’s fantastic!”

Evan looked across the kitchen table at his wife, whose genuine excitement was breaking through the exhaustion that always marked their late-night “board meetings” after their twin toddlers were finally asleep.

“Yesterday you told me you’re getting a promotion. Today, you’ve been offered a million-dollar investment. I can’t wait until tomorrow!” Lily said with a playful grin. “But wait,” she continued, her expression changing. “How would you do both?”

“That’s just it. I don’t think I could. It would have to be one or the other.”

Six years ago, Lily stopped working as an orthodontist to focus on her health (she has Crohn’s disease) and then on raising the kids. At the time, she carried around $500,000 in student debt, and though Evan had thrown his bonus at the principal each year, they still faced a $4,000 monthly bill. They both worried that they’d be paying it right up until the twins’ college fees were due.

Lily worried, “If you go full-time as an entrepreneur, what happens to our health insurance? Maybe I should go back to work.”

Evan shook his head. His phone buzzed before he could answer her question. It was a text from Drew.

“Fritch has never been a side hustle for me. It’s my dream. We don’t need Phil — we can go the organic route if that’s what you want. But at some point, I hope we can do this full-time and turn it into the business it deserves to be.”

Evan stared at the message, feeling the pressure mount. He showed it to Lily.

His phone lit up again, this time with a text from Phil. The message was brief and direct: “Great to meet you, Evan. Let me know your timeline on a decision or further discussion. I’m ready to get to work and hope you are, too.”

He stood up from the table. “Let’s go to bed,” he said. “We can talk more in the morning.”

THE EXPERTS RESPOND: Should Evan leave his job to focus on his startup?

GABRIEL GONZALEZ ORTA is a co-founder of Casalú, a rum-based seltzer maker.

Evan should remain in his current job unless he can renegotiate the terms of the deal Phil has on the table. Full conviction is essential. In my own career, I ran my startup as a side hustle, but as soon as I secured funding, I eagerly made the transition. Most entrepreneurs are actively seeking an opportunity to pursue their venture full-time and would jump at Phil’s offer. But I see too much hesitation from Evan.

BRAD MINSLEY is the co-founder of the 10 Federal Companies, a self-storage real estate company and DaVinci Lock, a maker of controlled-access products.

Evan should leave Vitalisync to pursue this opportunity. He has the passion, and that’s the key criterion for entrepreneurial success.

That said, Evan must secure his wife’s support before he proceeds. Then, the next step is to decide whether Phil is the right investor to help Evan make the leap. My intuition tells me he might not be the best fit.

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